It was narrated from Yazid bin Aws, that Abu Musasaid he fell unconscious and an Umm Walad of his wept. When he woke up, he asked her: “Have you not heard what the Messenger of Allah صلی اللہ علیہ وآلہ وسلم said?” She said: “He said: ‘He is not one of us who raises his voice in lamentation, shaves his head, or rends his garments.”(Sahih)