Sayyidina Jabir ibn Abdullah ‘ narrated I married a woman and then came to the Prophet 3i L- . He asked, “Have you married, 0 Jabir?” I said, “Yes!” He asked, “A virgin or a widow?” I said, “Rather, a widow”. He said, “Why not a young girl? You would have played with her and she with you”. I said, “0 Messenger of Allah! Indeed Abdullah has died and left behind seven daughters, or nine. So, I took one who may look after them”. So, he prayed for me.
[Ahmed 14966, Bukhari 5367, M715, Nisai 3216]